If you plan to paint the town red, it is important that you go out prepared. Too many people make the mistake of spending less time and effort planning then regretting to be in the wrong place, at the wrong time, with the wrong people and without enough support. I have learned these tips by heart for years which have made my life quite easier especially during weekends.
1. Setting the plan. It is very important that you set everything straight first before you decide to go clubbing. Some of the common questions to ask are: Who are you going out with? Where do you plan to go? What time will you be leaving the house? How long will you be staying out? What is your mode of transportation? What will you be wearing? How much will you be spending? What day of the week is it?
You need to know if you are with the right crowd to go into a certain place. Some individuals may be too stiffand do not really like the idea of going into hip hop bars. Others prefer house music, while others like reggae. Make sure you gather people who also can socialize very well. You wouldn’t want to look like a hodgepodge of people trying out the clubs for the first time. Also decide which attire is best. You may be flabbergastedto know that some Gifts for groomsmen actually are very useful accessories for clubbing.
2. Entering the club. Make sure you smell of confidence the moment you step off the car and get ready to enter the club. If people look at you, look at a certain point as if you’re determined, such as the entrance door and give out a little smirk as if you know exactly what you’re doing. You can also flashyour Engraved zippo lighters and flick the cover a couple of times as if you’re getting warmed up to party.
When you step in, createyour space immediately. The best places for me would be an empty table for 3 to 4 people. This is the type which has no chairs so you just stay standing up while having your cocktails. If one or two seats at the bar are empty, you can also set your territory there. Any person who enters your spacemost likely is trying to send you a signal that he or she wants to get to know you better.
3. Getting attention. There are several simpleways to grab attention and project the image of being confident and friendly, without the risk of looking arrogant. I like bringing Pocket watches once in a while. Girls always come over and ask for the time, although I really think they just need something to start talking to me. You can also order 2 drinks and casuallyask the person you want to meet to share the drink with you. Do not be afraid of rejection. It actually takes 3 to 5 denials before you realize there’s really no harm done in being told no.