What is a modern woman like? The answer to this question is completely different than it would be say a century ago. It is not surprising for us – the world changes and we have to change as well. A woman now has to be a wise and intelligent teacher for her children as well as a kind and attentive mother; we expect her to do everything at home, to be an excellent cook, a talented worker, an interesting personality, perfectly looking, knowing and doing everything in advance and ready to support us any minute. She is independent, can stand for herself, she is successful in business and amazing in bed. This is more of a perfect woman plus perfect man combined in one person, but that is really our present-day ideal of a woman. Isn’t it a bit too much?
In most countries women are now treated equally to men, which is absolutely right and the way it should be. But we tend to misinterpret things, and as soon as women received the equity of sexes it was as if to say – here you go, we have equal rights now, so do everything we did before! Women get tired of playing dual role in family and society. But when they shows the smallest sign of fatigue or unwillingness to perform additional masculine functions any more, we blame them– equity of sexes, and what else did you expect of it? But a man and a woman being equal is a completely different thing. Equity is good, but everyone has their role in society. A minimal interchange with duties is unavoidable and sometimes necessary, but not the total exchange!
A woman of today is just trapping herself and is trapped by the others into the net of duties and things that we expect from her. This stereotype can ruin not just families, but whole societies! Society is based on family, and family is about every member playing their role well and not interfering with the roles of other family members, unless willing to give a hand. Aren’t you surprised by the rate of divorces? Couldn’t it be so because we are confusing our roles, particularly because we expect women to play kind of a dual part?
Just stop for a moment and consider stated above. We certainly don’t want to live up to someone’s expectations and rules, especially when they don’t correspond to our ones. But that is what we actually do. It is time to reconsider the stereotypes that exist in our world about what a woman of today should be like. It is time to return to our primary duties and roles, and only than woman will be able to have a sigh of relief and everything will gradually return right where it belongs.
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