A good friend was getting married and did not ask me to be his best man; the speech that was given by the guy who he did ask was awful, he didn’t even make it about the happy couple. Make sure you mentioned all of the good things about the groom first before you get to the funny stuff. If necessary, produce a list of these items before you compose your speech or, if you want to wing it, just hold your essential points on a piece of card so you don’t leave out anything.
This is not a great best man speech and the bride will be insulted. When it is your turn to speak, thank everyone for coming before you offer congratulations to the happy couple. If you are connected to the groom through family (brother, cousin, uncle…), talk about what the groom is going to add to bride’s family in terms of character.
Acceptable speech topics when referring to the bride is her lovely personality or how she has been an asset the the groom’s life.
Make sure your best man speech is not too long, since it will not be the sole guest speakers
Most likely, the maid of honor, parents of the bride and groom will also want to talk these days and more than 2 parents and stepparents, it is better to preserve its leadership, at least, so everyone has time to talk Applying these tips to ensure its best is a man not to forget it when some time to prepare and if you improvise, use index cards if you want to mention in his words.