I have always enjoyed engaging in flirting. It is a challenge for me keep the flirting in the relationship going, for I am married now. Honestly without flirting where would we be? When I first met my now husband, I was a master when it came to flirting. To flirt with a man you have to be confident, easy going, and witty. Now I am not talking about the one liners guys like to drop. You must be tired, because you’ve been runnin’ in my mind all day. Seriously? Flirting does take a bit of effort. When a man does know how to flirt back, boy oh boy is it not the best feeling in the world?
It is always a nice feeling when you find men who have no idea about everything and anything you say. Flattery is always useful and paying when you try to flirt with some one. The best advice I have been given when speaking to an individual or group of individuals has been to speak carefully my words and never lose eye contact. Its amazing the lengths that man will go to to win a woman, promises, sweet gestures and many times what turns into a whole lot of nothing. Women are carried away and start fantasizing that they have got their man of their dreams being incorrigible romantics.
Then follows the usual ritual and the man proposes and the woman eagerly accepts. Wedding takes place, followed by a dream honeymoon and then the couple returns to their daily rigor. All is hunky dory for some days and then slowly, the euphoria decreases and the man slowly reveals his real self. He throws his things around expecting his wife to restore them to their places, expects laundered clothes all the time, wants breakfast to be ready by the time he leaves, expects wife to greet him when he returns, watches TV while sipping coffee, while the wifey dear is preparing dinner.
He has his dinner and goes to sleep blissfully unaware of what his wife wants. Do you want to know what a guy wants from a woman? Everyone needs a wife as a lover, a friend, a mother, a sister, a nurse, a house keeper, an adviser. This makes them most lovable person in the world. To my mind, what most men find attractive, more than anything else, is a sense of fun. Most people prefer a companion who is upbeat, enjoys life, and doesn’t dwell on negative experiences. Who wants misery and anxiety? You will welcome an enthusiastic and optimistic guy who will make people laugh heartily.
Sometimes we put our own pleasures in front of our conscience and will try anything once just to be able to say we did. In order to pull a man towards you, let him know that you have the courage to hold the things you take pleasure in. Nobody wants to make a life partner out of someone who denies himself or herself all the wonderful things life has to offer. The best relationships I have ever had as a man were with women that could just be themselves and share my sense of humor, silliness, and sometimes to just simply waste time being together.